Most of the wordy posts on this blog are from the email journal I kept during my years with the narc. I am now narc-free. The dates of the journal entries don't matter much, because the only things I wrote about were: 1. How crazy I felt and/or 2. How I was going to make this work. I left him so many times, I lost track. This time is for good, though. I know too much. I am keeping this blog for my own healing and processing, but I welcome you here with open arms. If you have been abused by a narcissist, I hope you are on your way out and find solidarity here.

Sunday, June 15, 2014

NPD Trait #4

NPD Trait #4

He notices the bad, misses the good.

You clean the entire kitchen, but miss the freezer.  He notices and says, "What about the freezer?"

(You respond with, "I was just getting to that." to appease him and avoid his dissatisfaction instead of saying, "Clean the damn freezer yourself.  I'm going to bed.")


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